#SDEKE!!! This is not fair. πŸ™…‍♀️

Hello guys. πŸ˜” I’m sorry I have been away for some time, and today I am back plus I just experienced an awkward situation which I didn’t know how to approach it. Sometimes it’s a hard knock to be a woman right?

I really respected this guy because he is older than me and I sure know he cares a lot about me, very curious as to what’s happening in my life. He seem to be interested and want to see me doing good and I really appreciate that.


Does that mean he is allowed to talk to me the way he wants? Like I really hate what he did and it touched me to a point I felt I don’t want to be friends with him anymore because sometimes he just orders me to do things. You know the feeling when a person calls and tell you he wants to see you now and when you ask why in a sudden he doesn’t answer and tell you time you supposed to be there? πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ Am I missing a point here??

So I was looking for something to put on my chair because I had white outfit, he gave me something, I asked who it belong to, he didn’t tell. I used it anyway. He came to me few minutes later with anger, furious and all, shout at me “during the people” like WHAT?😳 And you can literally see this person is mad,mind you I was chilling with my male colleague and there were other people having their lunch around.

Question IS, was he mad at me really? Or mad that I was chilling with a guy? Or what?

I feel like it’s too much for ME, He is not even my boyfriend. Why didn’t he just ask me from the side? Just take it then or something. Because I literally kept quiet until I went in and he complained about the fact that I like being around boys.

The reason he gave me after I asked told him how I felt is not alive.


People need to stop letting their emotions control them. Imagine lots of mistakes and how many people you gonna hurt and apologies after that.we shouldn’t suffer because of men’s insecurities or jealous or whatever. IT’S NOT FAIR! I PROMISE YOU.

Thank you for taking your time reading my burning issue at the momentπŸ’.

I love you❀️ and please take care of yourselves.