Hello guys. ๐Ÿ˜” Today I woke up before my alarm and I was so energetic, I was able to do my laundry at 05:00 am. When I got back to bed to relax, while surfing the internet. I came across #AMINEXT Which is a hashtag for women in South Africa. I always knew and followed it but today I couldn’t take it, it reminded me of our fellow women who lost their lives. This is not nice at all.

To rรฉalise that our enemies are not only the ones around us but also someone you grew up being told you need in life?the only human being trusted to protect women and support women. Worse Somewhere somehow you must get married, the question is to who? The same man? Huh๐Ÿค”


I am very enquisitive, I get this situation disturbing and bizarre. We as women go through a lot in life and its not even appreciated. Imagine we hold what I call “A house of pleasure for men” in this context and it’s also the reason we live a hard knock life.

I call it “A house of pleasure for men” because this is

  • What makes men happy
  • prove to them that they are men enough.
  • Produce what they call ” their inheritants” also
  • Become humbled and down to earth for it
  • Be changed men for it
  • They can kill for it
  • Risk their marriages
  • Spend a lot of money for it
  • Go to jail for it
  • Hurt someone for it .
  • Lose their morals for it

I always read articles on online newspapers and other people’s post about how they feel and how it can be resolved. Women decided to do a movement because this situation was getting out of hands,I am not saying it’s not now, but I am just saying hence now the court decided that”Rape and killing of women” will results in life sentence. And made an example with the man who raped a 7 years old girl in Pretoria. He just recently got sentenced to life. Despite the letters he wrote to families and poem to show his remorse.

It’s a problem still because we don’t feel safe anymore. Whenever I walk on the street i can’t wait to get to where I am going because first thing in my mind is AmINext? Or God can I please not be the next. You know, this Is also not healthy. It’s a mental abuse to women. I don’t know how long it’s gonna take for us to atleast think positive in the street to walk like other men do. Fearless focusing on where they going, hallucinating in peace or even fantasizing better.

I doubt I will ever feel safe but anyway I just felt like sharing what’s on my mind about this issue. Especially that now we considered as goods๐Ÿ˜ญ

Thank you for taking your time reading my thoughts Please take care and have a blessed day.๐Ÿ’

I love you. โ™ฅ๏ธ

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